How to become ideal for yourself. How to be a good girlfriend to your boyfriend. Always be well-groomed

Being a good girl is not so easy, especially at the very beginning of a relationship. However, whether you met last week or celebrated the 5th anniversary of your relationship, there are some things that any girl should adhere to to prevent the relationship from withering on the vine. To be a good girlfriend to your boyfriend, you need to love and support him, while maintaining your independence at the same time. And if you want to know how this can be achieved, read this article.

Steps

Be open

Don't be too open at the beginning. The best relationship is when you have enough opportunity, space and time to get to know each other and make sure you're right for each other. If you push your relationship towards something and rush, then such premature pressure can scare away the guy and ruin everything. Instead of rushing, you need to be patient and understand that building a lasting and strong relationship takes time. So, if you don’t want to break up, don’t do the following:

• Don't force someone to call you "his girlfriend" after just a couple of dates. There is every chance that the guy will not like the imposed decision. Be patient and let him decide for himself when to say the cherished words. If you are suitable for each other, then this will happen soon.
• There is no need to start talking about marriage, children and growing old together if you don’t even know his parents or friends. If you raise these topics too early, then a certain tension will arise in your relationship, which may even lead to a break in the future.
• The saying goes that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. She's not saying you have to cook a three-course meal on your first date! You don’t need anything like that, just be attentive, listen and talk about your interests. Good for a first date.

1. Be honest. Being honest with a guy is very important, yes. And what's even more important? Be honest with yourself! If you overact or make a mistake in something, you can always admit the mistake and apologize. If you feel offended, hurt, then you can always sort out your feelings and express them, explaining everything to him in a non-offensive form.

   • The most important thing in this case is to be as open as possible about your own feelings. For example, if a guy says something unpleasant to you, then don’t hide it to yourself, admit it - but don’t scold him or ask him to change.
   • If you managed to achieve a good mutual understanding in the beginning, then you will soon understand whether anything good will come out of this relationship.

2. Talk about what's on your mind. Don't be afraid to speak up about your desires, voice your needs, and voice your opinions, even if doing so may lead to conflict. Your existence, after all, should not be subordinated to the sole purpose of “pleasing him.” No, no, no! It’s better to show that you are also a person, you also have thoughts, feelings, desires. This approach will make the guy more interested in getting to know you as a person, as a person. Well, if you talk about what’s on your mind, then the guy, believe me, won’t hide.

   • Remember that you need to express this whole matter in such a way as not to offend or offend anyone. You can speak out, but do it modestly, if you do not forget about the great power of self-confidence, and also do not lose sight of the feelings of the guy himself.

3. Be yourself. You don't have to pretend to be someone to impress a guy. Yes, if it seems to you that “he likes a different type of girl,” then there may be a temptation to pretend, but, as a rule, it only seems to you. After all, your boyfriend wants to date you, and not with the image of shining perfection. If you want to change because a guy demands you to be slimmer, prettier, quieter, etc., then this is a great sign of your incompatibility as a couple.

   • If you are constantly being picked on, then this is not love, but attempts to control you.
   • There is no need to pretend that you share the guy’s interests if in fact you are indifferent to them. Yes, at first it may be “harmless,” but if later the guy understands how you really feel about his hobbies, then the offense can be very, very serious. You never know, what if he has already started planning your future together, taking all this into account, and here you are arranging such a “surprise”?

   Support

   1. Find out what your boyfriend is interested in. Remember what he likes to do and what he likes to talk about. There is no need to act as if you share his hobbies, just try to at least understand what he found in all of this. If he likes a band, then think about what's so special about their music. If he likes to behave frivolously, then think that this may simply be a way of dealing with stress. If you learn to accept who he is, then you will learn more about yourself and will even be able to understand whether you are ready to spend the rest of your life with this person or not.

      • No need to be interested everyone his interests. If he likes to watch football, and it makes you sick, then don’t watch it, it’s businesslike.
      • Just ask “What are you interested in?” and talking on the topic may already be quite enough.

   2. Criticize less often than praise. If all you say is criticism, attacks and jokes, then your relationship is unlikely to last long. However, this is also true if you agree with your boyfriend on everything, just because you are in a “relationship”. Don't forget about tact, which is the best strategy for a mature relationship. However, it would also be a good idea to learn how to set boundaries and come to compromises.

      • Yes, if the occasion is appropriate, then you can criticize - but do not forget to pour honey on this fly in the ointment and say at least four pleasant things for every unpleasant thing you say.
      • There's no need to take it out on your guy if things aren't going as perfectly as you'd like.

   3. Learn to compromise. If you want to be a good girl, you will have to learn to compromise, and not defend your opinion to the end and get angry every time something doesn’t go your way. And in order to learn to come to compromises, you and your boyfriend need to learn to calmly and rationally discuss your problems and situations, not forgetting about each other’s point of view. Try to understand why your boyfriend says and acts the way he does, rather than blindly focusing on your needs.

      • Don't be the girl who always gets what she wants just because your boyfriend chooses to give in again and not listen to your hysterics about how things didn't go the way you wanted again.

   4. Give each other enough personal space. Yes, you should support your boyfriend, but that doesn't mean you have to be there all the time. Do you want to be a good girlfriend for him? So allow yourself to do your own thing, meet your friends And meet your boyfriend. And the guy should know that you think about him and miss him when he’s not around. If you feel insecure and doubt the strength of your relationship during moments of separation, then you have a problem...

      • If a guy wants to spend the evening with friends, support him and let him go, but don’t impose and go with him. You don't want your boyfriend to have a reputation. henpecked who goes everywhere with his girlfriend?
      • If you think he should spend all his time with you, then it's time to learn to be less intrusive. Less defensive reactions, don’t follow him!
      • Don't forget that your boyfriend doesn't need you to live. You are two separate people, even if you are a couple. If he needs personal space, then he shouldn’t take it as an insult. Just understand that he needs to communicate with other people. Just let him know that you are always waiting for him and miss him.

   Love

   1. Be kind and loving. There are many ways to express your feelings - some are more obvious, some less, and the choice is determined by how obvious you want to express everything yourself. Love and affection, of course, are close to intimate, but all this is not the same thing, since the first can be demonstrated at any time of the day or night, both in private and in public. Think about how you should show your feelings? Holding hands? Shoulder touching? Through light kisses on the cheek, hugs, stroking hair, supportive words, compliments, or something else? The choice is yours.

      • Some men love it when a girl addresses them with the words “baby” or “honey.” However, don’t go overboard and damage the guy’s reputation by calling him something like that in public. On the other hand, communication is an important part of a relationship, so let him know how much you like him.
      • Regular nice texts and emails are, of course, nice. But not when there are several hundred of them a day! Yes, this is how you express your feelings towards the guy, you want it not to end, but still don’t lose sight of the boundaries, otherwise you’ll inadvertently scare him away!

   2. Be seductive. There is no need to be afraid of this. Many men simply cannot resist if a girl is sexy, confident and looks great. Confidence in this case is when you are satisfied with your own appearance. If you accept yourself for who you are and your self-esteem is in order, then there will be no problems with confidence. Don't try to become popular, try to become someone you're not, and so on. Instead, focus on taking care of yourself and believe that you are worthy of your boyfriend's attention.

   3. Give him gifts. If you are in a relationship, then giving each other small gifts is the way to go. Guys love to receive gifts, so give him something that immediately shows how much you care about him. Don’t overdo it, there should be a reason for everything, including gifts. You don't want him to start thinking that you're buying him, do you?

      • Give him a gift with your own hands. Something he could always look at, smile at and think about you. If you have a talent for music, then you can even play him a song (or better yet, sing a song of your own composition). If anything, a private YouTube video will help convey your gift.

   4. Don't be jealous. Of course, you need to love, but not to the point of madness. And even more so, you shouldn’t get flushed with anger if your boyfriend mentions some other woman in his speech. Nothing compares to female jealousy in quickly reducing relationships to zero. But if you communicate decently with your boyfriend’s girlfriends, and don’t say what fearful people they are, then you will be rewarded handsomely!

      • If your boyfriend is hanging out with his friends, don't text him every 2 minutes to make sure he's not talking to other girls. From all this, he will understand only one thing - you do not trust him.
   • Don't let your friends try to control your relationship. This is your relationship, not theirs. Yes, of course, they will have their own views and opinions about all this, but you don’t have to hang on their every word, unless you want to, of course. Understand that sometimes one of your friends may simply not like your boyfriend - but this is normal, no one is perfect. Just listen to your friends and ask them to “try to get along” with your boyfriend.
   • No need to worry about your appearance. Have you been invited on a date? It means I like you.
   • Appreciate all the good things in your relationship. Men like it when everyone appreciates it. You appreciate it, right? Learn to thank him for everything he does for you, because his actions show his respect for you. And remember, not every girl is lucky enough to build a good relationship. Appreciate it.
   • Don't teach people how to live. Don’t teach your boyfriend how to live first. But don't let him put pressure on you either. Be open about how his pressure makes you feel. Well, by analogy, don’t let him teach you how to live.
   • Try to make friends with his family and friends. They most likely mean a lot to your boyfriend, he values ​​their opinion, including about you. Communicate with his parents respectfully and try to please them. Or better yet, make friends.
   • If a guy offers to pay for you at a restaurant, consider the “no, don’t pay for me” option. This way you will show that his money is not the main thing for you. However, if your boyfriend is old-fashioned, he may insist on paying for you. Then let him be a gentleman and don’t offend him with a refusal.
   • Don't try to change and change your boyfriend. Just tell him what you like, and if he likes you, then next time he will remember it and act accordingly. If he is far from the image of the person with whom you are ready to spend your life, then think about whether you should look for someone else, and consider this relationship as something like an attempt to learn something.
   • If your boyfriend does not shine with initiative and is generally somehow passive, this does not mean at all that he does not love you. Most likely, he is just shy or an introvert. Or a shy introvert. Maybe he has no relationship experience and just doesn’t know what to do. Or maybe he just hates playing in public, although in his heart he loves you, and deeply. Discuss with him the reasons for his behavior and understand them. Maybe he expects you to take the initiative, especially if you have more experience in relationships than he does. Or maybe that's just the way he is, and then you just have to get used to it.
   • Remember that every relationship is different and there is simply no universal way to be a good girlfriend, since everyone has different tastes.

   Warnings

   • Jealousy is a very dangerous emotion. Don't make a guy jealous, it will seriously damage his trust in you.
   • Don't irritate him. In other words, don’t constantly call him, get angry when a guy spends time with his friends, force him to spend more time with you, complain and whine, and constantly ask his opinion (you shouldn’t even trivially constantly end sentences with the words “you don’t do that”) do you think?”) and so on.
   • Don't flirt with his friends! Even if his friends are all Mr. Universe, don’t. Let him know that he is the only guy for you in the entire universe. If you feel that you are uncontrollably drawn to flirt, then this means only one thing - you are not yet ready for a monogamous relationship.
   • Discussing a guy with your friends is, in general, normal. But this does not negate the need to watch your language and not talk too much, personal or indecent. You can tell your friends how things are going with you, but you don’t have to tell them exactly how and in what way they are going, unless, of course, we are talking about something dangerous or life-threatening. If you decide to share such personal, even intimate information with someone, then make sure that your boyfriend knows about it and has nothing against it, not to mention the fact that he can tell something like that to his friends. Just don’t let him talk about you as an object!
   • Never lie. You don’t just have to be honest, you also have to be open. There is no need to keep something to yourself, even if it is strange and awkward, since such behavior is fraught with problems in the future. And you shouldn’t let things go by chance; it’s better to actually say it, and not suffer later from what you didn’t say.
   • There is no need to conduct any secret experiments on your boyfriend and evaluate his reaction. It's humiliating, it's not respectful and it's not fair. Think for yourself, would you like to be in his place? By the way, when it comes to forced sex, remember the same thing.
   • Don't go through his phone unless he gives you permission. Expect the same behavior from him.
   • Know the difference between constructive criticism and unconstructive criticism. The second is when you make it clear that you would like the guy to act in some way that is completely disgusting and alien to him. In other words, do not try to remake him - this may lead to a break in the relationship.

Instructions

Relationships are not just a beautiful life together, and certainly not constant gifts, romantic dates and declarations of love. Relationships are built, first of all, on mutual work on each other’s characters, on mutual respect and understanding. A girl should take almost a more active part in this work than a man. After all, a woman is naturally wise and endowed with patience, knows how to understand human nature and show kindness and tenderness. So why not use your best features to become perfect for you!

The ideal is good both externally and internally. Yes, men love to see a well-groomed, beautiful woman next to them, but at the same time, her character is also important to them. Know how to present yourself well, take care of your body, face and clothes, but don’t think that guys should notice every detail that catches your eye. He is unlikely to understand whether you have lost weight or gained weight, or whether you have changed your hairstyle. And you don’t need to sharply concentrate his attention, torment him with questions about how you look, and especially with reproaches that he didn’t notice something. The guy notices not the details, but your entire image.

Internally, a girl should be calm, confident and self-sufficient. This means that she should strive not to be an addition to her boyfriend, without whom she is lonely and unhappy, but to be a complete person. Do not torment your loved one with a constant demand to be only with you - he also has his own interests, concerns, and affairs. Don't call him every hour to check where he is and how he's doing. And don't be jealous of everyone you meet on the street. A self-sufficient and confident woman understands that relationships do not consist of constant control and the desire to possess a person completely. Young people perfectly see and feel a trusting attitude towards them, and they will be grateful to you for this.

Just as a girl believes in herself and her strengths, she also believes in her chosen one. Respect for the other person, his desires, interests, and social circle is one of the wonderful signs of a great relationship. It's good if you love your partner's hobbies and interests, but this doesn't always work out. Then at least treat them with respect, not considering them nonsense and a waste of time, because this part of life is important for a young man.

Here's what you shouldn't do in a relationship: don't try to radically change your man. And definitely don’t do this with constant scandals, reproaches and reminders. No guy can stand this. But this does not mean that you need to completely distance yourself from the development of a young man’s career or character. You just don’t need to hope that the features inherent in nature can be radically changed. You can’t make an introvert into a sociable party person. And a modest performer is unlikely to become a good boss. But inspiration has always given men strength, so give up arguing and gain faith in your man, feminine patience and charm in order to help him and be a support for him.

Observe the behavior and desires of your chosen one. Notice what he loves and appreciates, how he relaxes and how you can surprise him. Of course, you will not fulfill your partner's every desire and live only to fulfill his every whim. But understanding your boyfriend’s desires is the path to understanding his personality, and therefore a good relationship with him. Besides, just as you are trying to change his habits in some way, he also wants to change something in you. Therefore, mutual agreement to change will only benefit the couple. Discuss such issues together, otherwise unexpressed wishes can lead to a quarrel.

Becoming perfect is not the ultimate dream of any girl. To be the only one, the most beautiful and desirable, the embodiment of a dream - this is real happiness. However, you should understand that you are not born ideal. A little effort on your part can move you towards your cherished goal. So, how to become the perfect girl for your boyfriend?

How to be the perfect girl for your boyfriend

First of all, you need to look not at others, but at yourself.

First, try to look at yourself from the outside with maximum objectivity. Without excessive criticism and self-criticism, but without turning a blind eye to the shortcomings, as well as to the advantages that you may not have noticed in yourself until recently. Is the list of external and internal qualities that need adjustment ready? Go ahead.

Having chosen the right moment so as not to cause a storm in a glass, ask your loved one what exactly confuses him about you. Compare it and your “list”. It is possible that there will be many common points. If you understand quite clearly that the issue is not your shortcomings, but a crisis of feelings, then we say: “Stop!”

And we are trying to understand how long your relationship will last. If the guy gave sensitive and useful recommendations, we begin to implement them.

Many guys like it when girls change their image: hair color and length, clothing style, makeup, get tattoos or decorate themselves with piercings. To taste and color, as they say... This is how men unconsciously realize their dream of a “small harem”. If the proposed changes suit you - a hairdresser, a gym and a company store are at your service. True, you shouldn’t give up things dear to your heart. Vintage in clothes, and in love, is always in fashion.

The way to a man's heart lies... The grandmothers knew what they were talking about. We prepare new dishes and arrange a romantic dinner for two. Works flawlessly.

Looking for an answer to the question: “How to be the ideal girl for a guy”? - sometimes, the most important thing is not the end result, but the process itself. By improving yourself, you improve your love and prolong it. Those representatives of the beautiful ox who accomplish this real “feminine feat” have the right to small weaknesses and touching cute flaws.

People will always talk. And very rarely they will say good things. If you're worried about how to be the perfect girl for a guy, don't forget that the only thing that matters to you is his opinion.

Nobody else should worry you. Of course, your boyfriend should help you and support you - no girl will become perfect without the support of her beloved man;

Don't go too far. In everything. In conversations, in errands, in help, in time spent on you. Otherwise, the guy will have the feeling that he is only needed for trips to the supermarket or trips to the country with your parents;

Don't forget the most important thing: you love each other. Which means they are already ideal for each other. All it takes to be a guy's perfect girlfriend is to remember the little things, make time for each other, and care. After all, you are still so young, you have your whole life ahead of you;

Be everything to him. Hope, support, air and happiness. If a girl loves and is loved, she always turns into a beautiful swan, into the one and only one.

If you want to become the ideal girl for a guy, the one he will idolize, do not forget to take care of yourself. Today, a well-groomed girl is, first of all, a natural girl.

In an age when Hollywood is replete with glamor dolls, the era has finally arrived when naturalness and natural beauty are again valued. Therefore, it should not be neglected. Every beauty is different, but beautiful in its own way.

Value yourself and never change for the sake of a person who is not worth it. There may be many guys, but you have one and only one. Don't forget about this, and everything in your relationship will always be wonderful.

Do ideal women even exist? Probably not, if only for the reason that each person’s idea of ​​ideals is different. Opinions may not even coincide completely—for some, beauty is important, for others, intelligence is important.

But, nevertheless, there are some factors, views on which differ in general nature, and most people agree in their judgments. So, what does the ideal girl look like?

A woman is a beautiful and incomprehensible creature; poets and writers have always portrayed her as mysterious, magnificent, tender, loving, alluring, passionate, interesting, changeable and unusual. But the greatest merit of a woman is to remain the same in life.

But, unfortunately, not every girl can be called ideal. And it’s not about dazzling beauty - you just always need to remember that you belong to the female gender, and always look and behave accordingly.

Always be well-groomed

Very often you see how girls, who have always looked inconspicuous, at a holiday manage to simply amaze with their appearance. But is it really possible to do makeup, hairstyle and dress fashionably only on holidays?

This attitude towards oneself indicates low self-esteem, and men are primarily attracted to women who know their worth. To become an ideal girl for a guy, you also need to be well-groomed in everyday life - light makeup, clean and beautiful clothes, washed and neatly collected hair... Holidays should only emphasize the opportunity to be even more beautiful.

Don't be vulgar

There is no need to explain much here. Men want to see a girl as a gentle and defenseless creature (as a rule), and a real woman should be cunning enough to hide her strength. Therefore, there is no need to swear, wear too loud and revealing outfits and flirt with everyone around you.

Get rid of bad habits

Don’t smoke like a locomotive in front of a man and don’t get drunk - he’s unlikely to want to see such a person as the mother of his children. And if you already have a drink in front of him, let it be a glass of wine or champagne!

Don't be materialistic

Men are scared off by women who openly encroach on their money. Besides, it's simply indecent. If a man is “real,” he will make sure that his girlfriend doesn’t need anything.

Of course, there can be a lot of similar advice about what an ideal girl looks like. But the main thing is to feel unique and beautiful!

What a perfectly groomed girl looks like

Looking beautiful is a rather difficult science, because you always have to take care of yourself. You can often hear that men are attracted to well-groomed girls. In this regard, the question may arise: “What does a well-groomed girl look like?”

Every woman can be well-groomed and irresistible. And this has practically nothing to do with beauty - taking care of yourself and looking well-groomed is a woman’s responsibility.

Firstly, you need to understand that you cannot look well-groomed if you do everything in a hurry. What clothes you will wear and what color you will dye your hair is a personal matter for everyone. But some rules must be followed unquestioningly. Looking well-groomed doesn't mean you need to spend a lot of money - you just need to take care of yourself regularly to become the ideal girl for a guy.

It’s rare that you can bring yourself back to normal in a short time if you don’t take care of your appearance at all. But if you take care of your figure, face, hair and nails, when you unexpectedly need to go to a party, your appearance will not let you down. So what does a well-groomed girl look like?

1.Cleanliness

No deodorant will hide the smell of sweat if you don't shower every day. It is impossible to look well-groomed even if your hair has not been washed for several days - therefore, water treatments are mandatory. In addition, before applying any cosmetic product, you must first cleanse your skin, otherwise the result will be zero.

2. Clear lines

Nails of different lengths, hairs straying from the eyebrow line, split ends give an unkempt appearance. Therefore, you should always have a nail file in your purse. Be sure to visit your hairdresser once a month, even if you are growing your hair.

3. Color

Many women dye their hair. If you have already decided on this, then touch up your roots once a month - growing hair of a different color will make you look unkempt. If you decide to return to your natural color, then dye your hair in the color that is as close as possible to your natural color.

4. Leather

Regularly cleanse your facial skin, fight wrinkles, pimples, use scrubs to become the ideal girl for a guy. Don't forget about depilation - no matter what you choose (laser, epilator, razor), you should not have a single hair at any time of the year!

5. Nails

Don't forget to get your manicure and pedicure done on time. Regardless of what kind of nails you have - natural or extended, they should always look well-groomed, not flake, be clean and the same length. Peeling varnish looks very untidy.

6. Aroma

Try to select cosmetics from the same series - the variety of scents will turn you into a perfume factory. There is also no need to douse yourself in perfume - the smell should be light and unobtrusive, and not leave behind a trail of suffocating odor.

5 signs of an ideal girl for a guy

1. The ideal girl is independent

The ideal girl should have her own interests and hobbies. She does not live only the life of her man. A girl needs to have her own hobby, communicate with friends, work or study, or she can combine both activities. If you are not yet married, then you can even disappear for a while to let the man feel how much he misses you.

2. Beautiful

Everyone knows that men love with their eyes, take care of yourself, emphasize your advantages with makeup, hairstyle and clothes. However, do not forget that the ideal girl should hide her inner beauty behind the external gloss.

3. Sexy

The main thing here is to know and feel what exactly your man wants and correspond to his ideas about sexuality. After all, some people are driven crazy by revealing outfits, while others, on the contrary, are driven by modest attractiveness. An ideal lover should know how to become an ideal girl for a guy in bed, and therefore know about her man’s deepest dreams.

4. Intelligent and tactful

No matter how beautiful you are, tactlessness and empty talk will bring all your efforts to naught. A man's dream is to be able to carry on a conversation and know about manners; it shouldn't be boring with her.

The most annoying trait of a woman's character is grumpiness. To become an ideal girl for a guy, don’t be too grumpy and picky; no one will listen to your whining and nagging for a long time. This behavior will only provoke aggression on the part of your chosen one.

As you can see, these are very simple rules, following which every day, you can become for your chosen one, and maybe not only for him, an ideal girl, a real dream for men.

5. The perfect girl respects her boyfriend.

An ideal girl will not insult her man or belittle his dignity, even if he is wrong. A woman must listen and understand her chosen one.

An ideal girl should appreciate and respect her man, which means she should not demand constant presence nearby and give the man time to realize his hobbies and habits.

The further humanity goes, the more demanding we become of our future partners. Yes, in some ways this is possible and wrong, but this process is irreversible. If a couple of decades ago we were worried about the spiritual world of our partner, now we add appearance, social status and so on, so on, so on.

Disadvantages and advantages

Of course, any girl encounters a wave of criticism on social networks and on the streets. Among friends who have long been openly expressing their dissatisfaction with everything they may like or dislike.

And then the search and questions begin: what’s wrong with me? Why am I worse than others? Why don't you like me? Becoming the ideal girl for a guy means being yourself, and not copying others.

A neat and serious excellent student, an attractive laugher or an unapproachable leader looking down on everyone? Being perfect isn't easy.

You can't be ideal for everyone. It is possible to become ideal for one person or for the majority of society. But this will require some work on yourself.

Why be a standard?

Success is a combination of many factors. You cannot become a standard without constantly working on yourself. Being ideal is hard work. If you constantly work on yourself, your image, it can become a habit.

Self-sufficiency and development

Being self-sufficient is very important at any age. Even at 13 years old, when your world is constantly changing and complexes begin to overcome you, it is not easy, but possible. Even if you are a teenage girl, you can act like an adult.

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You can never stop. We must constantly develop and work on ourselves. Find, discover a new facet in yourself.

You can learn something new. Sign up for some courses, clubs, choose those activities that will make you better. Sport is the key to health and beauty. It not only strengthens the body, but also makes you more strong-willed, purposeful and fit.

Don’t sit still, strive to conquer new heights, inspire others with your example. If you study at school or university, you have all the prerequisites for this.

Just don't be smart. When a girl speaks in quotes from books, this is not an indicator of her intelligence or erudition. An intelligent person speaks in a simple language that is understandable to others.

Attractiveness

Becoming an ideal girl is difficult in appearance. The difficulty lies in everyday work. Every day you need to take care of yourself: do makeup, watch your figure.

Education and literacy

The ability to win over others with good manners and good speech are the components that can make you respected as a person.

• Don't cry in front of others. Tears do not affect the stronger sex, but rather irritate them. Even at 13 years old you need to be able to control yourself.
• Don't humiliate people.
• Don't be arrogant. Cold, arrogant people are repulsive.
• Punctuality is an important quality for a good girl.

Thrift

Being a good housewife is important. Comfort in the home means harmony in the family. We must learn to cook. Keep order in the house. Do not be lazy.

Loyalty

There is always something that is appreciated regardless of time and era. If you want your friends to be faithful to you, set the right example. This rule also applies to relationships with young people.

Loyalty is an indicator of a harmonious personality. To be faithful means to respect yourself and your loved one.

Caring and understanding

A little sensitivity and understanding will allow others to see you as a strong person, allowing them to open up and trust. Selfishness is the lot of only weak people. Only a strong person is capable of caring for others.
Take an interest in the affairs of the people around you, just do it sincerely.

Positivity

People are drawn to those with whom they feel good. This is easy to notice, even at school, those who have a sense of humor make friends more easily and are drawn to them.

There is no need to tell others about your problems. Evaluate failures adequately. Remember that your family may also have worries, so don’t burden them even more.

Attentiveness

Show concern for your loved ones. Take an interest in the affairs of your relatives. Attention is very important to others. Some people are embarrassed to ask for help. The ideal girl will always notice this and help herself.

Give gifts. Let them be small or homemade. This kind of attention is nice.
Praise those around you. Give compliments. It's nice. The main condition is sincerity.

Sincerity

Don't be a hypocrite, don't pretend to be someone else. Falseness is always felt at the subconscious level.

A good girl for everyone is one who doesn't lie.

How to be perfect for a guy

Don't demand the impossible

If a guy works two jobs or has problems with his boss, then it is logical that when he comes home, he may forget to kiss you or buy flowers.

You shouldn’t nag him at this moment and demand more attention to yourself. We need to let him lie quietly on the sofa and rest. And who said that becoming the ideal girl would be easy for him.

Often a girl thinks that she can change the man she is dating. It is a myth. The established character traits of a young man will remain unchanged.

You shouldn't expect a calm and phlegmatic guy to do crazy and explosive things every day. When you start dating a man, immediately pay attention to how he behaves. Being perfect is easier for one man than for another.

Don't wash dirty linen in public

Don't discuss your personal life with your friends or mom in front of your boyfriend. Listening to you talk to others about your conflicts or his misbehavior will only irritate your guy.

You cannot discuss conflicts with a guy even in his absence. Your words will still reach him. And then explaining that they were said in the heat of the moment is difficult. Relationships may deteriorate.

Love his pet

Many men become very attached to their animals. You cannot criticize your beloved pet. Befriend him, admire him and praise him. In this way, you will be able to win the favor of not only the cat or dog, but also your chosen one.

Don't get your mom involved

There is truth in every mother-in-law joke. Statements: “My mother believes” or “My mother said” will only cause irritation and dissatisfaction in a guy. He is the head of your relationship and your mother's opinion is inappropriate here.

If you still want to convey to your loved one some of your mother’s positions, then say this: “I believe that...”

Don't control the material aspect

The man is the breadwinner. He earns money, provides for his family, and gives gifts. There is no need to control all his financial expenses and get into his wallet. This could humiliate him.

Every guy has a stash. If by chance you find it during general cleaning of the apartment, do not touch it. This is important to him. Maybe he's saving up for an unexpected gift for you.

Show respect and affection

Becoming an ideal girl is not easy for him. Praise your boyfriend more, give him compliments. Never tell your man that he is a loser. Believe in him and support him in all his endeavors.

If your interests diverge in some way, try to find out more about his hobbies. Don't talk bad about your boyfriend's best friends. Admire and praise your man while being in the same company with his comrades.

Do not rummage through your notebook (correspondence, wallet). Trust is the main aspect in a relationship. There is no need to check his phone, computer, contacts every day for incriminating evidence. This is how you test your boyfriend’s nerves, and he may not be able to stand it and take a mistress to spite you.

The ideal girl should look great. "Men love with their eyes." Don't forget to take care of your appearance. Control your weight, go to beauty salons and gyms. Find out how your man would like to see you, follow his preferences.

And be beautiful and well-groomed not only on holidays, but every day.

• Be feminine for your lover. Men do not like rude, ill-mannered young ladies with bad habits.
• Do not be fancy- don't be a teenage girl.
• Don't "drink" and don't force your boyfriend. Don't bring up the young man's past relationships. You don't need to tell your loved one anything. Leave the past in the past. Make your relationship better.
• Change, be different for your boyfriend. Surprise your chosen one with surprises, new ideas, dishes.
• Get ready to become a good mother and housewife.

How to become a model in bed

• Remember hygiene;
• Remove excess vegetation;
• Find your perfume. The smell of the woman he loves drives a man crazy. Perfume should excite, not repel;
• Be beautiful for your boyfriend. Beauty saves not only the world in all its diversity, but also “the world in the bedroom”;
• The ideal girl should wear beautiful underwear. Be sincere, relaxed and loving in bed. You can't simulate. Simulation can alienate a man forever.

Listen to your man and his desires. Be sure to tell him about your fantasies. Over time, feelings fade away. In order for love to flare up again, it is necessary to experiment and bring new sexual fantasies to life.

For your loved one you have to be different. Love and follow your man's wishes.

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Many girls strive to get closer to the model, the standard. Then it will be easier to establish contact with your loved one, communicate with people, and conquer new heights. Of course, having become ideal in your own way, it is easier to achieve happiness in your personal life. How to become an ideal girl? What exactly needs to be done, how to behave, how to change? How to conquer the desired man, please others with beauty, manners, and achieve success in different areas? It is important to take into account many different points, try to surpass yourself in something, and constantly improve. This task is quite within your reach if you approach the matter responsibly and act purposefully. Remember a few recommendations, strive for the goal. The results will not keep you waiting.

How to become the ideal girl for him? Appearance
In an effort to become the ideal girl for a loved one, almost all representatives of the fair sex first of all think about their appearance. Of course, the importance of your reflection in the mirror in a relationship with a man is greatly exaggerated. But something really worth paying attention to.
Look after yourself. There is no point in trying to look like a fashion model or a movie star. Be yourself, create a harmonious and feminine image, attractive, moderately catchy.

We become the ideal girl for our beloved. Character
Character matters a lot. To become an ideal girl, you will have to change something in yourself, develop certain traits, and forget about some things forever.

1. Become more tender, soft. Even if you are rapidly moving up the career ladder, earning a lot and making important decisions, you need to remain a woman. Don't be afraid to show weakness sometimes. Remember to use smooth gestures, speak quietly, and develop melodic intonations.
   
2. Keep calm. Most men dream of a calm, balanced girl. Learn to control yourself, control your emotional state, and don’t get irritated over trifles. Are you angry about something, are you outraged? Do not take any action, wait a bit. Then you will be able to look at things more simply and formulate your opinion more correctly. This way you will avoid quarrels and conflicts.
   
3. Respect his personality. Do not take on the functions of a teacher. Trying to change a man is a bad idea. You are both adults, it is important to respect the lifestyle and opinion of your beloved man. To become the ideal girl, forget about constant comments and attempts to turn a man into someone else who matches your ideas about the standard “prince”.
   
4. Be gentle. Learn to give advice and convince so that your words really inspire trust and a desire to listen to them. Remember that peremptory demands themselves cause a negative reaction. Any point of view needs to be argued, even if it seems obvious to you.
   
5. Carefully build relationships with his family and friends. Establishing contact with the loved ones of your beloved man is very important.
   
6. Respect his interests, preferences, habits. Delve into the activities and hobbies of your loved one. If you want to become an ideal girl, try to be near a man more often, but not to disturb him, but to share his hobbies. Do not break his usual way of life.
   
7. Keep it individual. There is no need to completely “dissolve” in your loved one either. A man can quickly lose interest in a girl who does not have her own interests or personal affairs.
   
8. Create comfort, become an excellent housewife. Of course, you should learn to cook and keep the house in order. Comfortable conditions are of great importance.
   

Learn to be perfect in different areas, watch your manners, habits, and communication style. Respect the personality of your beloved man, be attentive to the people around you, and be friendly. Become the ideal girl and don’t forget that you need to constantly improve.